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Sun-25-08-2013, 21:53 PM
Well that is a shit remark to hear in your situation. I can imagine that you feel left alone, but I can also imagine that things may sometimes get over your O/H's head. That may be moments that something slips out that he not really wants to say, and also not really means.
Well and the way our minds work is that they go into a spinning sequence, thus enlarging our thoughts.
I think that certainly he didn't mean what he said in the way you interpreted it. I am quite sure that he loves you enough to overcome all trouble that might arise.
For you own mental wellbeing talk it over with him, perhaps tell him that you were scared by his words but that you still believe in him. At least avoid attacking him with words, I found out that men do not like that.
Keep up, you are not alone, over here we are there.
None of us has asked to have this disease, but we have to cope with it.
Caroline
Well and the way our minds work is that they go into a spinning sequence, thus enlarging our thoughts.
I think that certainly he didn't mean what he said in the way you interpreted it. I am quite sure that he loves you enough to overcome all trouble that might arise.
For you own mental wellbeing talk it over with him, perhaps tell him that you were scared by his words but that you still believe in him. At least avoid attacking him with words, I found out that men do not like that.
Keep up, you are not alone, over here we are there.
None of us has asked to have this disease, but we have to cope with it.
Caroline