A little advice if possible..

[bav101]

Mothers have there uses Bav and they stay calm under pressure .... unlike us men  

actually it was more being made to feel dehumanised and that i didn't matter that got to me more than anything. I had concerns... it didn't matter not only to the docs but to the company the job centre sent me to. I'm still very angry about that, I've never been one to think I'm a special little snow flake everyone needs to pay attention to, even before P but to be pretty much told to bugger off because i didn't matter. Yeah.