Is Scratching Rude?

[Forest Walker]

I scratch at home.... and just had an infection which has since cleared.  At least I think it was an infection.  The glands in the back of my neck were swollen and VERY sore to the touch.  I read where a skin infection could cause that and since I scratch ears, neck and scalp way too often, I think it was related.  But I digress...

I try very hard NOT to scratch in public.  At home it has become almost a habit to where sometimes I idly scratch when I don't itch all that much.  I find that since it's not a habit away from home and I'm usually doing something , I scratch less than when I am at home.

As for etiquette for scratching, I don't think there really is one.  Personally I think what you do in your own home is no one's business but yours and if they are looking... oh well.  Same for your yard, your car, etc.  As for public places, I do feel it would be a bit rude to overdo the scratching.  I think it's because if I didn't have psoriasis and was sitting near someone at a public event and they continuously scratched, I would wonder what was causing the itch and perhaps wonder if it was contagious.  Technically since I'm not hurting anyone it doesn't really matter but for the comfort of everyone it's probably polite to try not to scratch.  The only place I'd be concerned would be another person's home.  I used to worry a bit at in laws house.  Afraid I was leaving flakes behind wherever I went and if I should offer to clean up after myself type thing....    I ended up just trying really hard NOT to scratch while there and if the itching got to me, I'd step outside if possible and have a good scratch.  Also I tried to stay really moisturized while visiting to help with the dryness and the itchiness.

It's so helpful to read this, Kat.  It's sort of a habit at home with me, too, sometimes. I've taken up crocheting to keep my hands busy while watching a television show.  That helps.  

Oh, the stress of in-laws when you are a young wife can be intense.  But to have the worry about the flakes is so much more stressful.  I feel for you.  

I'm glad your infection has resolved.  It certainly could have been from your skin.