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Sat-24-03-2012, 08:39 AM
hey Mrs Fred,
I have never seen this post from you! I just run into it, I apologize.
You obviously need a little help, a few words in reply.
I hope I can give some, by explaining a little of my own situation. I surely recognize the idea of Fred being all frustrated about his condition and then dumping that frustration on the one the is nearest to him, the one that he trusts.
When I was in the earliest days of my friendship with my husband, I was a runner. In the sense that I was at the athletics course and there running 3 times a week with my friends over there, gaining an enourmous condition. I ran Les vingt kilomètres de Paris, in extremely good time. running was my life.
Than at a certain point in time my feet began to hurt, quite nasty, so I started the medical circus, which ended up in the diagnose arthritis psoriatica.
I tried to continue running, but I had to give up finally. The frustration that that gave to me landed on my friend. Apparently I felt that he was the one that could be trusted with my frustration, and we certainly had quite a number of fights and disputes. My angryness needed some way of getting out. Why did my body give up??
Well finally that still ended up in sticking together, and me finally finding the cure for me fitting for AP. I still cannot run anymore but found my way in spinning.
Anyway, your conclusion is right I think. Fred trust you with his frustration, but I understand that this can be very hard for you sometimes.
And than, also the time that he spends on that forum of his. But it may be that he now can lose some frustration in the forum.
There is one thing that I can do for you and that is to have a "decent chat" with Fred, if I am right that is the English expression for "beating him up", in order to let hem understand how you as Mrs Fred, are the one important person in his life whom he should care for very much, and have him take a bunch of flowers for you.
Take care Mrs. Fred !
I have never seen this post from you! I just run into it, I apologize.
You obviously need a little help, a few words in reply.
I hope I can give some, by explaining a little of my own situation. I surely recognize the idea of Fred being all frustrated about his condition and then dumping that frustration on the one the is nearest to him, the one that he trusts.
When I was in the earliest days of my friendship with my husband, I was a runner. In the sense that I was at the athletics course and there running 3 times a week with my friends over there, gaining an enourmous condition. I ran Les vingt kilomètres de Paris, in extremely good time. running was my life.
Than at a certain point in time my feet began to hurt, quite nasty, so I started the medical circus, which ended up in the diagnose arthritis psoriatica.
I tried to continue running, but I had to give up finally. The frustration that that gave to me landed on my friend. Apparently I felt that he was the one that could be trusted with my frustration, and we certainly had quite a number of fights and disputes. My angryness needed some way of getting out. Why did my body give up??
Well finally that still ended up in sticking together, and me finally finding the cure for me fitting for AP. I still cannot run anymore but found my way in spinning.
Anyway, your conclusion is right I think. Fred trust you with his frustration, but I understand that this can be very hard for you sometimes.
And than, also the time that he spends on that forum of his. But it may be that he now can lose some frustration in the forum.
There is one thing that I can do for you and that is to have a "decent chat" with Fred, if I am right that is the English expression for "beating him up", in order to let hem understand how you as Mrs Fred, are the one important person in his life whom he should care for very much, and have him take a bunch of flowers for you.
Take care Mrs. Fred !